("Na Paa Mare Opiopio", Ka Loea Kalaiaina, October 21, 1899)
On Saturday, September 30, 1899, at Nuu, Kaupo, Mr. Nalei Kaaihue and Miss Alice Kauakanilehua Kauhane were united by the golden cord that is the holy bond of matrimony by J. K. Piimanu before a crowd of guests. The marriage officiator performed the ceremony with great solemnity.
He spoke thus: "There are three milestones of a person’s time on Earth: 1, life; 2, death; and 3, marriage."
Your correspondent does not completely agree with some of the speech, namely Number 2 above.
As he explained the importance of these events, he dwelled on one theme of encouragement for the married couple and the crowd.
It was this: To gather, store, care for, and provide that which sustains the family’s basic human needs, so that there may be no discord between husband and wife, parent and child, and so on.
The institution of marriage, he continued, is important among enlightened peoples.
"Before two people decide to submit themselves to the covenant of marriage, they should make sure they are ready to do as I have described above.
"Furthermore, the woman is like a merchant ship with its sails magnificent in the wind, and if a couple is to be bound in the sacred institution of marriage, the rules of marriage should be strictly followed. 1. Live together in friendship and love. 2. Maintain these actions faithfully.
"Then the laws of the land shall not need to interfere."
The husband’s family and the lady’s side offered their enthusiastic congratulations. Warm handshakes were given with olive leaves of affection.
On Saturday, Oct. 7, people gathered to celebrate the married couple with a feast heavy with the rich foods of Kapuukolu.1
Harmony reigned while the throats slowly drank the rain of the naulu showers.2 Your correspondent offers a heartfelt thanks to the couple of the day.
With affection for the two of you,
J. W. N. Kawaionapua.
Nuu, Kaupo.
Oct. 10, 1899.
- As described in the book “ʻŌlelo Noʻeau: Hawaiian Proverbs & Poetical Sayings“: “Kapuʻukolu is on Kauaʻi, an island known for its abundance. This saying describes any abundance of delicious food.”
- In other words, while alcohol was drunk.